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Gentrification is Not Exclusive to White People

What many young professionals don’t often realize is that they also play a role in this gentrification process. It becomes even more nuanced when young professionals from generally high-earning backgrounds claim proximity to lower-earning ethnic enclaves due to their shared “South Asian-ness” or “non-whiteness.” This practice, fueled by the model minority myth, erases a lot of the ways in which communities are not the same and propels gentrification much more deceptively. Race and socioeconomic status are intersectional, and one cannot filter out one part of a community identity without acknowledging the other.

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I don't sleep anymore.

Panic. I guess that’s the only way I can describe the feeling I get when I wake up. Anxiety from middle school, into high school, ebbing into my college life. Now, a month out of college, anxiety is the only thing I feel when I try to watch TV, or read a book, or go to sleep. I feel anxiety when I’m not working, but sometimes I'm too anxious to even work.

While this diagnosis certainly came as a surprise, I’m grateful for the opportunity to discover more about myself as I embark on this journey of healing and self-love.

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The Existential Fear of Being Queer: A Coming Out Story

“I’m not interested in having a physical relationship with anyone because it disgusts me.”

In a nutshell, that’s pretty much how I came out as asexual to my parents. I did not want to. I was not ready. I believe that every person should be able to pick the moment that’s the most comfortable and safe for them to come out. However, I can’t help but feel like I was robbed of that.

The two dreaded words that prompted this moment: arranged marriage.

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